A
Tangle of Discourses: Girls Negotiating Adolescence
By
Rebecca C. Raby
“Parents brace themselves for the
challenges that are assumed to come when their
children enter their teenage years, and
many parents turn to advice columns,
books, talk shows and therapists for
guidance.
In an interesting shift from this
standard discourse of adolescence, Laurence
Steinberg’s research suggests that the
teen years are ‘stormier’ for parents than
for teenagers (p. 431).
The statements
above make a lot of sense to me. I think that the metaphor “storm” explains a
dimension of teenage hood. Yes teenage years are story years for youth. However,
it seems to me that it is more stormy for parents than it is for adolescents. Many
parents assume that their adolescent children will do something wrong. This
assumption is in the culture of adults. Parents are mostly over concerned about
their teenage children. This concern directs them to discipline and control the
behaviors of their children. In turn, their over protective behaviors irritate
teenagers and make them rebellious.
“Youth today are courted as a
high-consumer group, and are modeled in the media as the ideal age, with teenage
hood constituting the onset of ‘the best years of your life’. Social historians
often connect the emergence of adolescence to processes of production and
patterns of consumption (Kett, 1977; Adams, 1997). (…) Today, youth not only
advise their families on how to spend money, but are identified as a group with
both free time and disposable income (Palladino,1996)” (p. 437).
The discourse of
adolescence as “Pleasurable Consumption” and considering the role of media in
the construction of this discourse is also meaningful. Today teenagers as a
group are seen as profitable consumers. It is very obvious. When we go to mall
or similar shopping places we see that most of the shoppers are teenagers. It
is also seen in all TV and magazines advertisements. Teenagers are shopping in all
places. In addition they advise their parents what to buy. In this context, an
important point is that they are heavily influenced by the fashion industry and
media. Whatever is commonly advertised in media, it becomes trendy and it is
bought by teenagers.
“The present paper has examined key
dominant discourses that frame adolescence, the investments behind these
discourses and some of the contradictions embedded within and between them. (…)
Clearly this discussion is simply a beginning, as these discursive patterns
intersect with, and are disrupted by, class, race, gender and sexuality.(…) Discourses
are not monolithic and unchanging; quite the contrary. Their study allows us to
de-naturalize taken-for-granted assumptions (p. 446).
The five
discourses of adolescents identified by the author are not clear cut
categories. Also they are not universal. They are affected by race, culture, social
class, gender and other similar factors. They cannot be seen as unchanging.
Specifically, social class and culture, like media, influence teenage
behaviors.
"However, it seems to me that it is more stormy for parents than it is for adolescents. Many parents assume that their adolescent children will do something wrong. This assumption is in the culture of adults. Parents are mostly over concerned about their teenage children. This concern directs them to discipline and control the behaviors of their children. In turn, their over protective behaviors irritate teenagers and make them rebellious"
ReplyDeleteGood point, very good point. In a way it's sort of a chicken/egg situation. Was the teen really rebellious causing the parent to be overbearing and overly controlling or did the parent's overbearing ways cause the teen to act out.
Another good point that Raby brings up which relates to what you're positing (that it might be more stormy for parents than teens) is that for many families when the child becomes a teenager is also the same time that the adult is facing "middle-age" (also having your child become a teenager might bring on the feeling of "middle age" even before one actually reaches 'middle age').
Elif- nice choice of quotes. Think about how class discussion today plays into the final quote you chose. Did it help to support this quote? Clarify Raby's argument?
ReplyDeleteI think Andrea also raises some good points for reflection related to your original post worth considering.